The Softer Side of Alie…
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This is for the Male in You...
Not sure if we have any guys out here...but this is for you anyway...
Since Sundays seem to be the only day that I don’t have a million fricken things to do, I’ve decided that I’ll make Sundays blog day, then post them throughout the week.
For some reason your body seems to just go into that lazy mode, and won’t come out of it .
In my quest for the perfect relaxing Sunday, I did a bit of internet surfing, downloaded some new tunes, and just pretty much vegged; with a cold glass of mascot or as the popular term so deems it, mascoto.
And no I didn’t do it wit no hands…
Well, my music library is pretty nil now (My music man is too busy nowadays L) especially since it seems like there’s a new hit every five seconds; so I thought I’d replenish it. And since I write Romance, I try to keep my library full of sexy cuts like Trey, Drake, Omarion, Bachatas, and even some alternative love songs.
Therefore, in my search for love songs, or just some get down and get nasty music, hahaha, because I need that too since I write Erotic Paranormal, Erotic Contemporary and Erotic Historical Romance; I paused to think about the Slow Jam, the Alternative Love song, or some of that just plain amazing 70s and 80 music that was sung…by some relatively hot looking guy who swears that he meant the words that he was singing.
(Love songs by women are entirely different), but for today this is about the “Male” lol.
Steven Tyler’s, “Don’t go to Sleep”, Player’s “Baby Come back”, Journey’s “Send Her My Love”, Incubus’ “Wish You were Here”, Mike Posner’s “Please Don’t Go” Nevershoutnever’s “Trouble” Trap’s “Echo,” they all seem to imply some romantic sense of what men think. Especially…when that certain woman decides that she’s had enough and walks.
Nevertheless, as I delved deeper into the music, I found myself going back to my roots, R&B, Bichatas, and the like.
My first impression; was why can’t men truly think like this?
Seeing that I write erotic romance, I normally get my creative juices (my brain people) flowing when I listen to music.
If it’s a fight scene, then it’s Evanescence, Nickel Back, Link n’ Park, Three days Grace, Disturbed ect.
If it’s dialogue, then it Michael Bubble’, good old Frank, and 70s & 80s music as a whole.
However, when I get to the intimate scenes or argument scenes where the two main characters are pissed, have a huge fight to which one eventually storms out; I find myself going back to real R&B, (Tank, Tyrese, Usher, Robin, Jon. B., Trey, Jamie ect) or love songs (mostly women here, because after all, I am. I loveeee Adel) due to the fact that it seems to stimulate my brain for what it is exactly that I need to write.
But as I was listening to it, Trey Songz to be exact, (Role Play) I wondered to myself;
“Why aren’t men really like this?”
If you’ve watched any of his videos, you would think that he was in actuality, the “Black Casanova”, because the sensuality just exudes from his videos. After that I had an urge to watch the video, and I was still amazed how men just don’t seem to get it?
This is what a woman wants!!!
Usher’s Trading Places is one of the hottest videos out there, and I suddenly thought, if men spent as much time watching these types of videos, as they do say “Fucking Sports!” They would have a clue as to how a woman wants to be treated intimately, and essentially score major fucking brownie points.
Sadly enough, most men think that artist like Drake, Tyrese, Trey, and Usher are pussies, because they give up too much shit (as my ex used to put it. he was more prone to that crying ass Wknd!).
But here’s the thing guys…if you took even the slightest amount of advice from their songs; you know that hot chick that you’ve been after for so long?
She would ultimately melt in your arms; if you took your head out cha ass for like two seconds and said hummm, “Maybe there is something to this.” I swear…she would be eternally yours.
Even if you’re well endowed, if you don’t know how to use it, and when I say use it, not just the sex; but the sensuality of it; then you’re still a douche.
But learning, is fun, and maybe even actually going so far as to ask her what “She” wants. You might just be the guy that women fight over.
Have you ever wondered why that amazing looking chick was with…what you would consider a douche or a nerd?
It’s because they put her first (sexually, sensually, and emotionally) there is no such thing as emotionless sex, (I’m writing a series on it now hahaha…) no matter how both sexes like to think that there is.
Yet, to my male compradors, this intimacy is what keeps her there!
Just a thought.
If you’re a male reading this, women know what other women want. It’s just like one of my brother used to say, “Don’t ask another man about a man, unless you want the truth.”
Well…that goes for us women too ;)
Alie Out ;)